Perhaps you should approach the Ugly Mug and ask if they would allow a facilitated discussion on the subject and allow people who were there (and all) to voice their experience like you have. It might be the beginning of a stronger and more aware community that can stand together even better. It could be the small beginning of something really productive. If you hadn't posted this I would not have known it happened. There are probably thousands more in our community who have similar experiences and would like to discuss it. Maybe invite a panel of people with experience in this issue(s).